I always said that Theresa was the nicest person I never met. We met 15 years ago in the on-line Trivia chat rooms. We'd spend hours each night playing trivia while instant messaging each other about our lives and our families. This led to emails where we'd catch up with one another and share advice. Although it was usually Tess (that's what I called her stemming from her screen name)giving wonderful advice to me. I will miss her strong solid presence in my life - it was such a joy for me. I know she is on "the other side" and yet still with us because that is what we both always believed. My heart goes out to the DeBellis family, but if there's one thing I can tell you after thousands of hours of conversations with our beloved Theresa, nothing gave her more satisfaction, more joy, more meaning to her life than her beloved family - both her immediate and extended family - she loved you all very very dearly.